ROBERT SMITH, JR.
June 5, 1918 - April 22, 2004
Around 2:00pm, Thursday
April 22 our friend Robert Smith, Jr., the son of Dr. Bob Smith, passed over.
"Smitty" was probably the last living person who had witnessed the
birth of AA. He was a young boy of 15 when his father had that first eventful
meeting with Bill Wilson in May 1935.
He went into the hospital on the 7th of April,
and went downhill from there. I know you'll join me in sending prayers of
comfort to Mona, his bride of only a couple years.
Please help pass the word.
Mona Sides-Smith
Mailing address: 2660 Stage Coach Drive, Memphis, TN 38134-4437
LAST EYEWITNESS OF AA'S ORIGINS DIES IN
MEMPHIS
(Memphis,
Tenn. April 22, 2004) Robert "Bob" Smith II, last
eyewitness of the start of Alcoholics Anonymous, died of
congestive heart failure at St. Francis Hospital in Memphis,
Tenn. about 5 o'clock Thursday evening, April 22, 2004. "Smitty,"
his nickname in youth and later at recovery gatherings
worldwide, was the only son of Anne Smith and Akron, Ohio
physician Dr. Bob Smith. Then a teenager, young Bob was there on
Mother's day 1935 when his father met New York stockbroker Bill
Wilson for the first time. The two co-founded Alcoholics
Anonymous, a twelve step recovery program that has helped more
than two million people worldwide recover from the disease of
alcoholism. AA's twelve step program has been replicated by more
than 250 other groups that use the same steps to overcome
addictions to drugs, gambling, food, sex and other behaviors.
Bob Smith joined Al-Anon, a recovery program for the spouses,
family, friends and other loved ones of alcoholics, when one of
his family members began attending AA meetings in Nocona, Texas
in the late 1970s. It was only then, the younger Smith would
say, that he realized the enormity of his father's contribution
to the world in the co-founding of AA. In the past 27 years, Bob
Smith accepted invitations to speak at AA and Al-Anon
Conventions worldwide thirty to forty times a year. Smith made
his last talk three weeks ago in Chicago's Indiana suburbs at
the Talumet Round-Up. He had cut back on his speaking
engagements to twenty to twenty-five a year only as he entered
his mid-80s. Smith would say of such invitations, "they
didn't invite me for who I am. It's who I know," referring
to the famous co-founders of AA who are regarded as spiritual
giants by recovering alcoholics worldwide. Bob Smith would share
his memories of AA's pioneering days at conferences, recalling
how his parents and Bill Wilson allowed recovering drunks to
stay in their Akron home at 855 Ardmore Avenue. Bob Smith's
childhood home is visited annually by thousands who wish to see
where the program of recovery had its origins. "It was such
a gift to live with Bob. We decided if we had two weeks together
or ten years together, we'd take it one day at a time and that's
what we did, " said Mona Sides-Smith, a Memphis based
therapist, who married the son of the AA co-founder in September
2002. Smith's first wife of more than fifty years, Betty Smith,
died several years earlier. Bob Smith leaves a son from his
marriage to Betty, Todd Smith of Vernon, Texas and two
daughters, Penny Umbertino of Phoenix, Arizona and Judy Edmiston
of Dallas, Texas. He leaves one granddaughter, Kathy Graser of
Denver, Colorado. Smith also leave three stepdaughters: Rachel
Farmer, Elaine Orland and Elizabeth Douglas,all of Memphis.
Smith spent his working life in Texas as an oli producer. He
served as a pilot in World War II, flying the B-24 Liberator on
35 submarine hunting missions out of Africa. Smith worked as a
commercial pilot for a time after the war. But he spent the last
three decades of his life focused on sharing the gift his father
helped bring into the world, AA. In his book CHILDREN OF THE
HEALER (Copyright 1992, Parkside Publishing Company),
co-authored with his late sister, Sue Smith Windows, Smith's
thoughts written on the dedication page seem a fitting epitaph,
"For the loving God who allowed me to lead a very exciting
life and also loved me through my many mistakes and who allows
me to be of service. For the constant love and understanding of
four* good kids and a steadfast wife. I am truly grateful. For
my loving parents who tried to instill in me values by their
tireless example. For the many friends I have met and know as a
result of 12 step programs. You have taught me a way of life in
these programs that I never would have figured out by myself. I
am truly grateful." One AA member said upon learning of
Smitty's death in Memphis, "many thousands of AAs who met
Smitty and heard him tell the eyewitness account of AA's origins
will mourn his passing but will celebrate his life and the great
gifts he shared." Memphis Funeral Home on Poplar Avenue in
Memphis, Tenn. has charge.
*Betty
and Bob Smith had a fourth child, Scott Smith, who preceded them in death.
Bob
Smith ( Smitty') Memorial Book
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