With his wife, Betsy, children, Brad, Wendy and Ridley, their
spouses and his grandchildren by his side, Bob Pearson died
peacefully of "old age" in his home in Bellevue, Idaho, on Jan. 1,
2008.
Born the only child of somewhat nomadic parents, Ridley Stilson and
Agnes Greenlees Pearson, on Feb. 19, 1917, Bob was not formally
educated until the third grade. He took to academics easily,
skipping grades and graduating from Kansas University at 18, where
he served as editor of both the university's humor magazine and
yearbook. A skilled writer, Bob was the focus of a national scandal
when a Scribner's Magazine article, "Ghost Behind the Grade,"
published in 1938, revealed that e had paid his way through college
by ghost-writing hundreds of grade-specific papers for fellow
students in dozens of classes and seven universities. His writing
led him to New York City where he went to work for the Shell Oil Co.
in public relations, and later met his wife of 63 years, Betsy
Dodge.
With the advent of World War II, Bob enlisted as an officer in the
U.S. Navy, and was assigned aboard a destroyer escort as the ship's
gunnery officer. He participated in numerous missions in convoys
across the Atlantic. Bob wrote speeches for the admiral of the Navy,
as well as for two presidents, Franklin D. Roosevelt and Harry
Truman. His destroyer escort was part of the historic capture of a
German U-boat, north of the Azores. It was the first submarine ever
boarded and taken prior to the destruction of any of its hardware or
its Enigma radio codes -— only days prior to D-Day, later
immortalized in the motion picture "U-571." In 1945, he was
honorably discharged, holding the rank of lieutenant commander.
Following the war, Bob and Betsy eventually settled in Riverside,
Connecticut, where Bob was an avid runner and skier and served as
senior deacon in the First Congregational Church of Greenwich. In
his 38 years with Shell Oil, Bob's most notable accomplishments
involved that company's sponsoring of major sports. Working with the
NBC television network, Bob was instrumental in popularizing golf by
bringing the sport to live television for the first time in "Shell's
Wonderful World of Golf." He also participated in Shell's
sponsorship of Craig Breedlove's pursuit of the world land speed
record in a jet-propelled car, on the Bonneville Salt Flats in the
mid-1960s.
But it was Bob's personal crisis that would prove to define his
life. Beginning with his service in the Navy, Bob had grown addicted
to alcohol and, some 20 years later, nearly died of alcoholism. He
was encouraged by physicians to join a fledgling group called
Alcoholics Anonymous, in Greenwich, Connecticut, in 1961. Bob P., as
he was known in that organization, found sobriety and dedicated
himself to AA service, even working on occasion with its co-founder,
Bill W. He served on local and national boards of AA, and eventually
was appointed general manager of AA's World Service Organization,
where, for 10 years, 1974-1984, he oversaw the enormous
international growth and spread of AA worldwide. The organization
played an influential role in the establishment of over a hundred
unrelated, so-called 12-step programs, which have resulted in
millions' conquering various addictions. Through his service to AA,
Bob P., with wife Betsy (a longtime member of Al-Anon), traveled the
world, speaking to both small AA groups as well as at its
international conventions of 50,000 or more attendees. His "AA
story" was published as the closing story in "Alcoholics Anonymous,"
AA's "Big Book," which remains one of the most widely published and
perennially best-selling books in the world.
Bob and Betsy moved part-time to Bellevue, Idaho, in 1980, soon
making it their permanent home. Here, Bob P. continued to serve AA,
both as a speaker and contributor to its national archives. Bob's
life was defined by his dedicated service to Alcoholics Anonymous,
an organization whose members depend on one another for their
survival. His family wishes to extend their thanks to the hundreds
of local AA members, and thousands of national members, who
supported Bob's sobriety, gave him a charmed life, and who continue
the great traditions of this wonderful and necessary organization.
A memorial celebrating Bob P.'s service in Alcoholics Anonymous
will be held Friday, Jan. 11, (check local flyers) in Sun Valley,
Idaho; a public memorial for friends and family will take place at
the Church of the Big Wood, Ketchum, Idaho, at 4 p.m., Saturday,
Jan. 12. Donations in Bob's name will be gratefully accepted by the
Sun Club, Ketchum, Idaho.
(The entire Pearson family wishes to extend their gratitude to Drs.
Hall and Fairman, Hospice and Palliative Care of the Wood River
Valley, and especially Johnna Pletcher and Gloria Clark for their
loving in-home care and assistance.)