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This is AA General Service
Conference-approved literature
Copyright © 1976 by A.A. World Services, Inc.
All Right Reserved.
Am I an alcoholic?
If you repeatedly drink more than you intend or want to, if you get into
trouble, or if you have memory lapses when you drink, you may be an
alcoholic. Only you can decide. No one in A.A. will tell you whether you are
or not.
What can I do if I am worried about my drinking?
Seek help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous?
We are a Fellowship of men and women who have lost the ability to control
our drinking and have found ourselves in various kinds of trouble as a
result of drinking. We attempt—most of us successfully—to create a
satisfying way of life without alcohol. For this we find we need the help
and support of other alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that
commit me to anything?
No. A.A. does not keep membership files, or attendance records. You do not
have to reveal anything about yourself. No one will bother you if you don’t
want to come back.
What happens if I meet people I know?
They will be there for the same reason you are there. They will not disclose
your identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much anonymity as you
wish. That is one of the reasons we call ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting?
An A.A. meeting may take one of several forms, but at any meeting you will
find alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and
personalities, what actions they took to help themselves, and how they are
living their lives today.
How can this help me with my drinking problem?
We in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be unable
to keep promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop drinking. We
are not professional therapists. Our only qualification for helping others
to recover from alcoholism is that we have stopped drinking ourselves, but
problem drinkers coming to us know that recovery is possible because they
see people who have done it.
Why do A.A.s keep on going to meetings after they are cured?
We in A.A. believe there is no such thing as a cure for alcoholism. We can
never return to normal drinking, and our ability to stay away from alcohol
depends on maintaining our physical, mental, and spiritual health. This we
can achieve by going to meetings regularly and putting into practice what we
learn there. In addition, we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other
alcoholics.
How do I join A.A.?
You are an A.A. member if and when you say so. The only requirement for A.A.
membership is a desire to stop drinking, and many of us were not very
wholehearted about that when we first approached A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost?
There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually
have a collection during the meeting to cover expenses, such as rent,
coffee, etc., and to this all members are free to contribute as much or as
little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization?
No. Nor is it allied with any religious organization.
There’s a lot of talk about God, though, isn’t there?
The majority of A.A. members believe that we have found the solution to our
drinking problem not through individual willpower, but through a power
greater than ourselves. However, everyone defines this power as he or she
wishes. Many people call it God, others think it is the A.A. group, still
others don’t believe in it at all. There is room in A.A. for people of all
shades of belief and nonbelief.
Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting?
Family members or close friends are welcome at “Open” A.A. meetings. Discuss
this with your local contact.
What advice do you give new members?
In our experience, the people who recover in A.A. are those who: (a) stay
away from the first drink; (b) attend A.A. meetings regularly; (c) seek out
the people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for some time; (d) try
to put into practice the A.A. program of recovery.
How can I contact A.A.?
Look for Alcoholics Anonymous in your local telephone directory. These
telephones are answered by A.A. volunteers who will be happy to answer your
questions, or put you in touch with those who can. If there is no A.A.
telephone service close to you, write or phone the A.A. General Service
Office.
Here is a list of A.A. pamphlets which may be particularly helpful to
you:
Is There an Alcoholic in Your Life?
A.A. — 44 Questions
Is A.A. for You?
Do You Think You’re Different?
A.A. for the Woman
Young People and A.A.
Too Young?
Remember that alcoholism is a progressive
disease. Take it seriously, even if you feel you are only in the early
stages of the illness. Alcoholism kills people. If you are an alcoholic, and
if you continue to drink, in time you will get worse.
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